Online vs OTB vs Computer Play

I am probably out of step with the majority of players, but I really dislike online chess.  I did try it in the early days, but playing a stranger from a different country who, whether W/D/L, you are extremely unlikely to ever meet again does not appeal.  Then there is the possibility that your opponent just stops playing, or you suspect they are getting unfair help, or there is a technical glitch, . . .  Playing over the board is a much richer experience.  Even in a weekend chess congress where you are likely to play complete strangers, you get a feel of your opponent via body language, you can discuss the game afterwards and you can follow each others progress in the tournament.  Rather than playing sterile online games, I prefer to play a computer chess program.  It doesn't mind if you abort a game or take back a silly blunder that would ruin an otherwise good game, and you can set its playing level to suit you.  Also, my computer is always available if I have a few spare moments for a game.

The same can be said for playing general abstract game online - there are now many sites available.  My first experience of this was on Boardspace with Dr Dave during Covid.  BUT, we play alongside a Skype session so that we can discuss the new games that we have been learning and playing.  So much better!  I also find computer opponents really useful to cement the rules of a new game and get a feel of how it plays.

My ideal would be to be able to drop in to a regular abstract games group in Exeter (Devon), for OTB play.  Being able to mix and match games and opponents and generally discuss the games would be great.  I do not believe such a group currently exists and I am not sure that I have the energy to set one up by myself.  If you are within striking distance of Exeter and find this an interesting possibility, then please contact me.